recent comments postings blogs addas bijoya sammilani parties constant message missing good style durga puja happen part world agree thing back home bijoya dashami saddest year amount naru laddu ghugni sweep sadness country discovered durga puja specific puja committee celebrated festival overlapping weekends festivities continued weeks attendees festivals felt importance market presence short supply bengalis region high demand treated patrons registrants days major organizations puja weekend missing prolonged celebrations foreign land social interactions rare long opportunity meet common place spend time exchange words share joys sorrows fragmentation festivities tearing fragile social bond sense friends meet year puja festivals attend venue happened earlier days guess inevitable society grows fragmentation bound happen anandamandir bharat sevashram sangha year festivities extended week members community display newly acquired fashion gear days subho bijoya 