sharmila year kallol celebrated durga pujo committee class structure enforcers class system long time member expressed disappointedly green gulo holo citizender jonno aamra bakira holam bratyo life members members attend pujo celebrations kallol regularly treated disdain contempt paid venerable green card attendee asked amaar kono daam answer addition rows front cordoned yellow caution tape caution plebeians stay elite woman dared cross friend subho bijoya halted peremptorily odike keno jachchen apnar odike jaorar katha interestingly woman's badge purse volunteer needed perception status caused gender justify insolence interestingly privileged rows left occupied orange cardholders color rigueur seats orange section bespoke ownership strewn shawls bits paper brochures interesting note vacant seats elite section orange section unclaimed days celebration yellow tape visual claims ownership indignity tagged orange intensified fact conjunction yellow cautionary tape orange signified danger careful unimportant people addition lighting system midst outcasts elite seats chairs marked lighting system chairs unoccupied light stood erect entire time fiddling knobs child aiming lights sundry frequently missing real subject fact transparent obstructed people concern obstreperously defied requests night celebration kallol years greeting contemplation classical music year penultimate program songs sarode artists stage announced presentation kallol's volunteers shooed stage dismissing requests protests audience boos audience citizens pause proclamation running late program people complained rude crude obnoxious behavior display festivities complainants women visiting parents group unexpected women contexts spoken misogyny infests kallol revelation surprise worthy note point durga celebrated sacred feminine shakti borrow loosely noted writer borders belief celebration shrank back hands kallol's officious officials remarked sadly kollol'e beno dhuke geche onek etai dukher byapar bottom line deliberately slighted insulted mistreated nice mark bangalider shrestho celebration note opinions expressed article author 