arranged marriage quite common india important phase arranged marriage process selecting bride mind bride selection groom selection important component process visit bride's home conduct interview girl figure girl suitable candidate cases girl asked provide verbal answers questions demonstrate gait posture length hair artistic musical culinary skills cartoon drawn emphasize aspect selection process girl demonstrates gait walking tight rope everyday in-laws family walk fine line amazing dexterity balance skill women country participating olympics gymnastics events skill walking horizontal beam genes cartoon proma published kolkata years thought interesting post olympic season 