recently watched wonderful talk alain botton talking atheism unlike radical atheists reject religion altogether philosophy class people existence gods aspects religion rituals music literature myths alain aspects religion popular aspects enrich positive ways reject details talk watch video listen concept alain calls atheism rang bell love attend durga puja festivals love hear mythological stories durga mahishasur exist love listen sonorous chanting chandi listen ecstatic kirtan music feel elated love shyama sangeet watch plays listen stories hindu mythology epics feel compelled historical truth sitting fence religion wondering side land option atheism refuse indoctrinated religion refuse matter religion gladly accept goodies religions offers enrich aspects 